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CLAREY rvi You may not have relaized it, but the past few articles have dealt with family counseling. Lear- ning how to parent, how to communicate with your kids, and how to educate yourselves as a family are important concerns to the family counselor. A basic concept behind family counseling is the idea that if one member of a family is having problems it has a strong effect on the family and is ilSeif a symptom of something wrong with the family syslem. Rarely boring for the ccunseior, family coun- seling can be very hard work for the family A lot of "stuff" gets stirred up and brought to the surface. Tempers and emotions often flare up. At times it seems like things are getting worse not better. I is al lhese times that it is hardes lo stick it out. If you are in or are con- sidering family therapy and vhings are getting rough, everyone is upset, things are happening that you did not count on, and you want o quit -- DON'T! Uneasiness, doubt, and fear are signs Ihat the system is working loward a change and pWting up a lot of resislance in the process. Hang in there. Things will gel worked out, BUT, it ekes  ime. "The capacity of a family system zo resist change can be tremendous." For this reason the counselor will often spend some time seeing only one individual at a time or placing some family members in other group counseling programs. Change is difficult and at times it seems like changes can only be brought about by "generational succession in the context of changing culture." Family counseling can vary from one counselor seeing just a couple or a single parent and child to several therapists working with the entire family to working wilh groups of families, friends and neigh- bors. Some therapists feel that Wednesday, November 26, 1980- Page 9 "any intervention focusing on the family system raher than the persons in it merits-the name of family therapy." The practice of "family therapy is centered on the family system and the changes that can be made in lhal system." Seeing just one member of a family can bring aboul changes in the whole family, because a change in one part of the system effects the whole system. For example: if dad is under a lot of procure at work he may be feeling a lot of stress and anxiety and bringing these feelings home with him where the other family members begin to feel the strain and tension builds. If just dad seeks help with his stress and learns to control it and calm down, the effects are fell throughout the entire family, everyone calms down and relaxes. kfrom 'tan been a week of land Thanksgiving three birthday week. Wed- Miss Frankie's We had a surprise Snack for her. Thursday we Adam's fourth The children 'ed the cup- their favorites balloons and toys they each Friday we had third birthday cupcakes, and bags with little toys. Thanksgiving we've been the special the Pilgrims Indians had We made two pictures. handprint added. For picture we hands witha bill, a wattle then we colored with crayons. "I liked the red .'gobble. It feels we cut up the "I make a hand I colored the "We had cakes We put our brown paint. finger on paper, off my "I sticked !in the paint. I the paper. I I talced the "I liked the like putting my and this week." for child the hours of 7 P.m. and for an rugram 8: 45 to fore arid after is available. school buses deliver students like to come our pre-school, Call at 894-5063. |state DAMEROW roker With the and the rates, it is less and less husband and to afford our Even the lowest take all and a sub- tount of our onthly income, trouble a loan. Can any advice? Forget about new financing lairchase. 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Betty Crocker Cake Mixes All Varifies ROZEN Bonnie Hubbard ORANGE JUICE 12 oz. can Birdseye COOL WHIP 8 OZ. Bonnie Hubbard HASH BROWNS 2 lb. Peppridge Farm TURNOVERS 1 9 69 69