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October 29, 1980

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dETH SERVICES Where do the members of your child's behavior. your family see them- selves? Try answering these questions for your- self: In my family I am--. In my family I do---. I am important in my family because---. My mother (father) thinks I am ---. My brother (sister) thinks I am--. Useful, cooperative behavior characterizes an encouraged child. The discouraged child will have behavior goals that are destructive and these goals may include striving for (a) attention, (2) power, (3) revenge, and-or (4) inadequacy. in this is reprinted on parenting k ILwritten in I/Lug. It seems to II ][ the series on U  the of Adlerian kFel m in a family reeognition in The way his or her the family he views this example, an Zaay strive to TL Of "baby" or --- second child  other hand, Lrt child and the first s or give ,up ,=.,smOUraged). In l_t assert his rival, Will develop g the other's how when is being the other advantage for being nity WEST follow after I find them- r Romans J 11t celebration - 'rnunity Day War II, we .,1 a need for Fce. ms  theme, "The .,qe Lord Gives IFlS_re invited to ILlat power to f .:ves'to change .'mnstances.  ourselves .,,,#I m, and study, - lfind causes melessness, r lg in by being P'  to explore 1[ of the power -.4w.Spirit in our eome part of :1 "" Citizen uway - J['te. ms in your dL " is thorough L "qur the bridge F Worship and :. ty Day is ease plan to in the Ilk Then, reach ' fortunate in jter, when a ,L'mk Northern r1130 dead from k Church's =8ocial Action LNia distributed ld Service "  .t cws :ikets locally, :.to also help industries.  our help in - il'ds that en- ,. ecumenical  CASA to |- of All of = Baxter ',yres and Baxter & Hill & Sink & Remember, each child needs recognition and will get it in some way. - con- structively or otherwise. There are goals behind If your child's behavior makes you feel angry or resentful, then he is trying to gain power in the relationship. If you feel Wednesday, October 29, 1980 - Page 9 annoyed or smothered by tention may occur because So, what makes for the No, that 's not right, lshould your child's requests, then the child feels he has difference between a not have trusted you. You he is trying to gain your significance only when he is discouraged and an en- could have done better. You attention. If you feel hurt or the center of attention, couraged child? A should have watched me. I upset, the child is seeking Usually a struggle forpower discouraged child or in- told you a thousand revenge with his will occur after the parent dividual is uncooperative, times..." disobedient, delinquent has ried forcibly for some feels inadequate, and gives Now, - encouragement behavior. And if your lime to stop the child's up without trying. Parents implies faith, belief in child's behavior makes you demands for attention. The discourage unintentionally finding strong points, but feel helpless, his apparent child's behavior is to use when they use such avoiding lavish, insincere inability to do anything power todefeat his parents, statements as: "Don't get praise. A parent can en- demonstrates inadequacy. A, ]nersfcaion o1 a dirty! Watch yourself! You courage his child by These goals are the p,v, er s:ruggle leads o aren't old enough! Be building on his strong points means by which revenge behavi,,r, and Ihe careful! Let me do it for daily, showing ap- discouraged children make r,m,pie ely disc,uraged you. Let me show you how. preeiation, being friendly themselves feel they belong, ('hild gives Ul). becomes I know you can't do it. Look and showing affection. The desire for undue at- .mdequae at how well Johnny does it. Spending time in play with USDA CHOICE MEATS 345 S. 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Bottles 303 can Reg. or Hot Foster Farms Chicken France-American Franks & Bologna 89 Spaghettl)'s 3/1 oo  , 303 can Rosarita [:)el Monte .Lite Refrled Beans 79  Chunky Fruit 0 can 59 " 2,/  Pear Halves - Fruit Cocktail Sliced Peaches Kraft Marshmallow Creme 59 * Bonnie Hubbard 7oz. Yams 3/1 303 can Swiftning Shortening 1 69 Appletime 3 lb. can Applesauce 3/1 Carnation 303 can Hot Cocoa Mix " 1 49 Ocean Spray Cranberry Juice 1=9 ---,,-,= . ,,r-..::.:::... ! Budding . oz. , Luncheon Meat 49  I i : !!ii !. il ,,i!!i i